There is a very specific kind of tired that comes from being busy all day and having nothing to show for it.
Not because you did nothing. You did everything.
Emails. Lists. Notes. Planning. Cleaning up. Researching. Tweaking. Organising your tools. Getting ready.
Then you look at the thing you actually care about and it is still untouched.
That is over-producing.
Creation is different. It leaves a trace.
Over-Producing Vs Creating
Over-producing is work that keeps you feeling in control, but does not move the real work forward.
Creating is work that changes something. A draft exists. A decision is made. A page is published. A problem is solved. A pitch is sent. A messy first version is born.
Over-producing often looks impressive. Creating often looks plain.
Over-producing feels like progress. Creating is progress.
The Hidden Reason Over-Producing Feels So Good
Over-producing gives quick relief. You get to cross off easy items. Your brain gets a little reward.
Creation asks for discomfort first. You have to face not knowing. You have to risk being bad at the first version. You have to sit with silence long enough for something real to form.
So when life feels heavy, the mind often chooses the kind of work that feels safe.
This is not a character flaw. It is a nervous system trying to protect you.
The Research That Explains What’s Happening
If your days feel fragmented, it is not just in your head.
Switching between tasks has a real cognitive cost. The American Psychological Association describes “switching costs” and how shifting attention can reduce efficiency and drain productive time. (apa.org)
There is also a well-known concept called attention residue. When you move on too quickly, part of your attention stays stuck on the previous task, which makes it harder to do deep work on the next one. (ScienceDirect)
And if you are under constant time pressure, creativity tends to drop. Research from Harvard Business School researchers found that high time pressure can negatively predict creative thinking. (Harvard Business School)
This is why you can be working all day and still feel like you did not create anything. The conditions you are working in may be designed for producing, not creating.
Common Signs You’re Over-Producing
If you tick a few of these, you are not failing. You are just stuck in the loop.
- You are doing lots of supporting work, but the main work never starts
- You keep improving systems, but nothing ships
- You are constantly switching tabs, tasks, or rooms
- You feel busy, but oddly dissatisfied
- You keep gathering information, but do not turn it into decisions
- You do the “admin first” plan, and then run out of time
- You keep polishing something that is not ready to be polished
- You end the day mentally wired but creatively empty
If this has been your pattern for a while, you might also notice early burnout signs like exhaustion, cynicism, and reduced sense of effectiveness. The World Health Organization describes burnout in the occupational context using these dimensions. (World Health Organization)
Signs You’re Creating, Even If It Feels Small
Creation can be quiet.
- A rough draft exists
- A choice is made, even if it is not perfect
- You finish a meaningful “small win” that nudges a project forward (Harvard Business Review)
- You produce something you can show, send, post, test, or build on tomorrow
- You protect a block of focus time and stay with one thing for long enough to go deeper
Three Gentle Tests
The Evidence Test
At the end of today, what will exist that did not exist this morning.
A paragraph. A plan you can follow. A pitch sent. A page published. A decision written down.
If the answer is “a cleaner inbox”, that might be useful. It is not creation.
The Replacement Test
If someone took away your to-do list and tools, could you still do the work.
Creators can. Over-producers panic a little, because the system became the work.
The Energy Test
After a work session, do you feel more like yourself or less like yourself.
Creation can be tiring, but it often feels clean. Over-producing often feels scratchy and restless.
Why Over-Producing Shows Up More For Women
Because many women are holding invisible work.
Household admin. Emotional labour. Being the one who remembers. Being interruptible by default.
When you have constant micro-interruptions, depth becomes harder. Interruptions also increase stress and speed, even when output rises. (ics.uci.edu)
Soft Productivity starts here.
You do not need more willpower. You need kinder conditions.
Try This Today
Start Here In 10 Minutes
This is the smallest switch I know that still counts.
- Pick one creation target. Only one.
- Define “done for today” in one sentence. Keep it tiny.
- Set a 10-minute timer.
- Remove one distraction. Phone out of reach helps.
- Make the first version uglier than you want. On purpose.
- Stop when the timer ends. Leave a note for your next step.
If you do nothing else today, do this.
A rough start is a real start.
The Soft Shift From Producing To Creating
Choose A Daily Creative Outcome
Not a list. One outcome.
Examples
- Draft 300 words
- Outline the section headings
- Record one voice note and turn it into a paragraph
- Build the first version of the email, even if it is messy
- Make the decision and write it down
Protect The First 30 Minutes
If you give your first 30 minutes to messages and small tasks, your brain stays in reactive mode.
If you can, start with the thing that needs depth.
If you cannot, find any protected pocket, even 20 minutes, where you do not switch tasks. The APA’s work on multitasking and switching costs is a good reminder that constant switching is not neutral. (apa.org)
Batch The Supporting Work
Supporting work is real. It just needs boundaries.
Try
- One admin block a day
- One inbox check at set times
- One “capture and park” list for ideas so they do not steal your focus
Use Small Wins On Purpose
A small win is not a tiny task for the sake of it. It is a tiny piece of meaningful progress.
Small wins are linked with better inner work life and engagement, and they help momentum build. (Harvard Business Review)
Ask yourself
What is the smallest meaningful step that moves this forward.
If This Is Hard For You, Try This Instead
If your brain feels foggy, do not force deep work. Go sideways.
- Do a 5-minute “ugly draft” and stop
- Speak the first version into your phone, then tidy later
- Make a “next three steps” list and walk away
- Change the environment. Sit somewhere quieter. Face a wall. Reduce input
- Do one grounding action first. Water, food, a few deep breaths
Soft Productivity is not doing less forever.
It is doing the right kind of work, at the right level of intensity, for the day you are actually having.
Scripts That Help
When You Need To Say No
“I can do X by Friday. If you also need Y, I will need to move the deadline or drop another task.”
When You Need Focus Time
“I will be offline for 45 minutes to finish this. If it is urgent, call. Otherwise I will reply after.”
When You Are Explaining Your Boundaries At Home
“I am doing one focused block now so I can be properly present later. I will be done at [time].”
A Quick FAQ
Is planning over-producing
Planning becomes over-producing when it replaces the work. If planning leads to action within 24 hours, it is usually supportive.
What if my job needs me to be responsive
Then protect smaller creation blocks. Even 20 minutes of no switching can help. Attention residue builds when tasks stay unfinished in your head. (ScienceDirect)
How do I stop polishing and actually publish
Set a finishing rule. “I publish when it is clear, true, and helpful.” Perfection is not the goal.
What if I feel guilty doing less admin
Guilt often shows up when you have been rewarded for busyness. Remind yourself that output is not the same as value.
Gentle Closing Thoughts
If you have been over-producing, it likely means you are trying to cope, stay safe, and keep everything held together.
That deserves compassion, not a lecture.
Start with one honest creation step today.
Let it be small. Let it be real.
With softness and strength,
Vindya



